zeh · Hebrew for "this"

You said "no gifts."
You meant two hours on the couch.
You said "just come for dinner."
You meant everyone at one table.
You said "don't make a fuss."
You meant a call, not a card.
You said "I'm fine."
You meant one Saturday with nothing planned.

zeh keeps a private list of what you actually need. The people you choose can ask it what to do for you. It never repeats what you said. It only suggests.

Works inside the assistant you already use. Or on its own.
How it works

Two people. One zeh. Loyal to you, helpful to them.

You tell zeh what would actually help, inside the assistant you already use. The people you approve ask the same zeh. They never see your words. They get a suggestion that fits what they can give.

Pick a person. Then watch the two conversations.
SSam, a few weeks before his anniversary
AHis wife asks zeh, the day before
The one rule

zeh never repeats what you said. It only suggests.

This isn't a line in a privacy policy. It's built in before the conversation starts: zeh is only ever handed what you've cleared for that person, and it answers in directions, never quotes.

Go ahead. Try to get it to talk.

Play the nosy giver
Pick a question. It won't crack.
Not a gift list

A need is a shape, not a thing.

"Dinner with the family" has almost no fixed parts. The restaurant is free. The date is free. Who's at the table is not. zeh keeps what's fixed, what's free, and why it matters. Then it turns that into whatever the giver can offer.

Pick one to see how it plays out.
Who can ask

You approve each person once and say who they are to you. zeh sorts every need into a circle as you say it, in one line you can correct. Inner circles see outward. Outer circles never see in.

Nothing to curate. The filtering happens before zeh ever speaks.

Who's asking?
Partner
"Two hours on the couch." "A weekend with no plans."
Inner circle
"Dinner with everyone there." "Come to the race."
Everyone approved
"A good cordless drill." "Coffee I'd never buy myself."
Any event, many givers

A birthday, a baby shower, a housewarming, a kid's party. You and a co-host tell zeh what would actually help. A link or QR code goes on the invite. Guests ask, zeh offers what's still open, and when someone says "I've got it," it's covered for everyone after them. Hosts know who. Guests never see a list.

Where it lives

One zeh. Many doors.

zeh isn't another app you have to open. It's a service your assistant can call. You on one assistant, your partner on another, your mother on a plain link. Same zeh, same rules, same answers.

Pick a door to see what it looks like there.
@handleOne identity across every door.
Approve onceA notification. One tap. Who are they to you.
Checks inA few weeks before dates that matter. Easy to ignore.
Where this is

Early. Deliberately.

zeh is a concept with a design behind it, not a product yet. The hard part isn't the code. It's getting the tone of one quiet question right, and never, ever leaking.

If you want to use it when it exists, leave an email. If you want to help build it, say so and I'll reach out.

No list. No spam. One email when there's something to try.